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Taipei: July 11th-20th

I’ve been unable to keep up with the blog, as Phoenix and I have been slammed with preparing and presenting six workshops.  Taipei is a huge modern city filled with excellent restaurants and surrounded by lush rainforest mountains.  During our down time we’ve crammed in quite a lot of fun– we stayed at a gorgeous mountain spa to de-stress, toured Lavender Garden and the mountain countryside, toured a glass museum and met the father-daughter artists, participated in two tea ceremonies, toured two Daoist temples (one was the most elaborate structure I’ve seen yet—with gold leaf details and exotic carvings—more decorative than anything in the Forbidden City or Summer Palace), visited a tea plantation and had lunch with the 6th generation owners, and have worn ourselves out shopping in the street markets in the evenings. It’s been great to spend quality time with Phoenix and contribute to her school-life in Taipei. Unfortunately, I can’t post any photos because my camera cable was inadvertently packed in Frank’s suitcase.  Bummer.

I’m leaving July 24th for home…  This will be the last of my posts—I hope you all enjoyed hearing about my travels and seeing the beautiful sights of mainland China and Taiwan.  I will definitely be returning to see more of these awesome countries and welcoming people.

Beijing:July 6th-10th

July 6th

We went to the Great Bell Temple where we saw collections of temple bells and the main attraction, a  47 ton bell they had to bring on ice sleds back in 1743.  The highlight was when a staff member played the set of bells for us, including the jade chimes.  It felt like we were teleported back in time.

The Temple of Heaven was our next stop. The cylindrical Hall of Good Harvest was incredible to see, as well as the Circular Altar.  On the way in we passed by locals who were exercising, dancing, playing dominoes and mahjong, embroidering, and just hanging out chatting in groups.

The Ancient Observatory was fascinating because they had huge bronze instruments dating back to the 17th and 18th centuries. Their elaborate details made them look more like artwork than scientific instruments.

We went to Duijichi, a renowned  jiazos restaurant that had served emperors. We ordered sack-like dumplings, different from the usual crescent –shaped ones.  It was fun taking the subway back on our own; all this time we had been driven around by Liu Pei.  After 7 PM the stations and trains weren’t crowded at all.

A woman played these for us at the Great Bell Temple

The largest bell at the Great Bell Temple

The Great Bell Temple

On the rooftop at the Ancient Observatory

Temple of Heaven

The Hall of Good Harvest at the Temple of Heaven

The Ancient Observatory

July 7th

We toured Soong Ching Ling’s home; she was known as the mother of the Communist Party.  She was married to Sun Yat-sen while her sister was the wife of Chiang Kai-shek.  The mansion was given to her by the party in appreciation of her loyalty, yet she lived quite simply and spent most of her life involved in education and writing. The grounds were beautiful, with cooing doves, a rockerie, weeping willows, and a small lake surrounded by a walking path.

We then enjoyed wandering around the Back Lakes on our own for a couple of hours. While eating lunch on the rooftop of a Thai restaurant, we saw the Dutch family below us.  They were shocked to hear us call out their names; part of our conversation was about the coincidence of running into one another in a city with a population of millions.

We then toured Lama Temple’s  beautiful grounds and five colorful Tibetan Buddhist halls, including the Tower of Thousand Happiness with a 59 foot tall statue of Maitreya, the future Buddha.  Carved from one piece of sandlewood, it was a gift from the Seventh Dalai Lama delivered all the way from Tibet.

Prince Gong’s Mansion was next, an elaborate and meticulously kept imperial home built in the 1700’s by Heshen, a corrupt official who had accrued more wealth than the emperor.  The mansion’s grounds contained rockeries, pavilions, and gardens.  They also had an opera house in which traditional operas and tea ceremonies were performed for tourists.

The last stop was Baiyun Guan, a Daoist temple that is still in use for training monks.   It was built on the 700’s, and contained several temples, including a huge hall with meditation cushions and tables for studying the Daoist texts. A monk was reciting prayers in one of the minor temples.

We set out for dinner in the neighborhood where we were staying, and soon found out that the translation app on our iPhone was lacking when it came to figuring out a menu without pictures.   It became impossible to order at the first restaurant, a Mongolian barbecue restaurant where a crowd of 14 wait staff and cooks gathered to try and communicate with us.  We gave up, thanked them for their efforts and tried another place, Spice Girls Hot Pot.  We had 7 wait staff help us order (again,  we encountered a pictureless menu), and soon discovered that they were absolutely correct when they advised us that the spicy broth was too hot. This advice had been communicated by a facial expression of puckering and vigorous nodding of the head side to side.  After insisting that I liked spicy, they thankfully gave us two broths to cook our meat and vegetables. We ended up using the milder broth. If we had continued using the spicy broth we would have needed to be hospitalized.

The steps leading to a rockerie at Soong Ching Ling's mansion

Qian Hai, one of the Back Lakes

A gate of one of the homes in the Back Lakes hutong

Lama Temple

Baiyun Guan carved mural

July 8th

We took a tour of the hutong near the Drum Tower with a guide who was friends with Alex. She pedaled along next to us as we sat in a rickshaw cycle, our driver weaving along narrow alleys filled with vendors, dogs, and neighbors visiting in front of one another’s homes.  We then saw a drum ceremony demonstration at the Drum Tower which was magnificent!

We stopped at the Confucius Temple (Kong Miao), China’s second largest Confucian temple, and Directorate of Education (Guo Zi Jian), where the imperial examinations were taken back in the 1300’s.  I learned much about the history of national examinations in China and the role they played in determining critical government positions.  The temple is the second largest temple complex in China, with over 400 rooms. Busloads of students were touring, many of them purchased red prayer cards and hung them from the railings to ask for blessings as they take their final exams.

We visited the White Stupa, the largest Tibetan pagoda in China, 167 feet tall. It was built in the 1200’s under order of Kublai Khan.  Among the several halls, one contained thousands of small Buddhas encased in glass shelves.

In the evening we saw the Beijing Chaoyang Theater Acrobatics World perform unbelievable feats. They had contortionists, acrobatics that defied gravity, phenomenal balancing acts, and movements that required amazing physical strength.   We loved the show!

Prayer cards at Kong Miao

Prayer cards in front of Confucius statue at Kong Miao

July 9th

We set out for a relatively unknown site—Tian Yi Mu, a cemetery for eunuchs and exhibition hall located outside of Beijing in the countryside.  We descended into two tombs (spooky but fun) and viewed beautifully carved tombstones, a mummy and historical artifacts.  We experienced some intense traffic conditions at one point when Lui Pei drove the car down a narrow street lined with vendors and then encountered approaching traffic with nowhere to go.  We had to back up for about half a mile or so while surrounded by shoppers, dogs, and bicyclists.

We then went to Wanchou Si, a temple which also houses the Beijing Art Museum.   We saw some ancient Thangka paintings—sacred Buddhist art, as well as vases, jewelry, and other impressive historical items, some of them dated back to the years BCE.

Our last stop was one of the best places yet, Ri Tan Park, a gorgeous park of lily pad filled ponds, garden paths, pavilions, decorative benches, elaborate gates, and old trees.  We had a meal at a Stone Boat Café, a small boat made of stone and wood, set at the edge of a pond lined with weeping willows.  It was the perfect setting to conclude our trip.

Tian Yi Mu

Tian Yi Mu

Ri Tan Park gate

Water lillies at one of the ponds at Ri Tan Park

July 10th

Frank left for Raleigh.  I went shopping at the Pearl Market (Hongqiao), a multilevel maze of jewelry and knock-off merchandise and Yuan Hou Silk Store, a high-end silk store with beautiful silk fabrics and clothes. They showed the entire process of silk making—boiling the cocoons, the spinning of the thread, and the stretching of the silk to make bedding.  It was fascinating. Later, I left for Taipei to visit Phoenix Haydon, one of our first graduates from the MAT program.

Beijing: July 1st- 5th

July 1st

Frank and I went were driven to Summer Palace, a 717 acre imperial garden that’s more than 200 years old with forests, lakes, formal gardens, pavilions, walkways, and bridges in a picturesque setting.  Alex walked with us for a few hours, describing the history of the Precious Clouds Pavilion, the Long Corridor, Hall of Benevolence and Longevity, Marble Boat, and Seventeen-Arch Bridge.  We took a relaxing dragon boat across Kunming Lake.

We stopped at the old Summer Palace where Emperor Qianling’s complex of European-style fountains, park, and palaces were in ruins since the British and French soldiers destroyed them in 1860. All that remained intact was a maze made of walls which led to an elevated marble pavilion. We had fun interacting with the other tourists, all Chinese, and problem-solved the best way to navigate the maze—in our different languages.

July 2nd

We entered the Forbidden City through the Meridian Gate by first seeing Tai Miao, a peaceful imperial hall from the 1400’s. Once we got into the Forbidden City we met crowds but Alex artfully avoided them by weaving in and out of courtyards as best she could.  Among the 9,999.5 rooms we saw the Hall of Union, Palace of Earthly Tranquility, East and West Palaces, Hall of Preserving Harmony, Hall of Great Harmony, Gate of Heavenly Purity, Palace of Earthly Tranquility, Palace of Heavenly Purity, Cixi’s Theatre, Hall of Mental Cultivation, Nine Dragons Screen, the Imperial Treasury, the Well of the Pearl Concubine, the Hall of Clocks, and Imperial Flower Garden.

A family posing for us at the Forbidden City

The emperor's throne at the Forbidden City

Nine Dragons Screen at Forbidden City

Phoenix crown In the Imperial Treasury at Forbidden City

Posing with the lion sculptures guarding a temple at Forbidden City

We went to Tian’An Men Square and saw  Mao’s portrait gazing down from the Gate of Heavenly Peace, his mausoleum which was modeled after the Lincoln Memorial, and the changing of the guard.

Tian'An Men Square

Chairman Mao's Mausoleum

A real treat was to eat lean duck at Da Dong restaurant.  The chef designed a low fat duck and it was delicious, especially dunked in different condiments, including sugar.

July 3rd

After packing hiking gear we were picked up for our Wild Wall excursion and driven 2.5 hours, outside the city of Huairou.  We had planned our entire China trip around this adventure with  William Lindesay, a British expatriate who’s written books, received medals, and been recognized for his explorations and conservation efforts for the Great Wall since mid 1980’s. Check out his website: www.wildwall.com.   The plan was to hike different sections of the Great Wall at Jiankou and camp at his simple country home.

Early evening the three of us hiked for 8-9K to the wall and back. Once we reached one of the wall watchtowers we saw ribbons of wall and towers all along the ridges of the mountains, going in all directions. Some parts were reduced to rubble, while others were fairly unscathed.   Frank and I were dumbfounded by its size and beauty.  William filled us in on the historical and geological significance of all the sights.

July 4th

The three of us awoke at 2:30 AM, had a light breakfast and hiked 11-13K. It was quite an experience to walk up the mountain in the dark and watch the sunrise from the wall.  One of the more exciting sections was a 50 degree incline, leading to a tower that had a view of the town of Huairou and its reservoir, and sets of walls and towers extending like octopus arms below us.   Our expectations were exceeded as we listened to William’s first-hand accounts of the wall and watched the lighting change along the natural beauty of the mountains and valleys, and the human-made beauty of the walls and towers.

When we returned to the barracks we met a Dutch family of 6 who joined us for the rest of our visit.  Early evening we went on an 8K hike to another part of the wall, returned for dinner and viewed William’s National Geographic episode.

July 5th

We all awoke at 2:30, ate, and hiked to another section of the wall for 10K.  The day was overcast, but the sights were still impressive and we thoroughly enjoyed our last hike.  The Great Wall is by far the most awesome place we’ve ever visited.    Before leaving, William autographed his book and we exchanged farewells, promising to return with our sons the next visit.  On the long van trip back to Beijing with our Dutch friends, things were quiet, everyone cat –napped.

Resting at the 50 degree incline

Posing at the 50 degree incline

One of the watchtowers on the wall

Xi An: June 27th-30th

June 27th

Xi’An is an ancient city, with historical settlements dating back 6000 years and an imperial history which includes the Zhou, Qin, Tang, Ming, and Qing dynasties.

Today we went to the Terracotta Warriors and Emperor Qinshihuang’s Mausoleum Site Museum, as well as Huaqing Hot Springs, and the cable car ride to Mountain Li.  We were overwhelmed by the Terracotta warriors–the scale of the pits and the level of realism in their expressions was amazing!

We then went to see the Tang Music and Dance Show at Shaanxi Sunshine Grand Theater that evening. It turned out to be a Westernized glitzy production for tourists rather than featuring traditional dance and music, as promised.

One of the "Warriors" removed to the Shaanxi Museum in Xi'an

June 28th

We spent the day seeing Big Wild Goose Pagoda, Shaanxi History Museum, and Xi’An Beilin Museum (also known as the Forest of Steles, one of our favorite museums containing ancient steles, buddhas, and horse hitches).

At night we rode along the entire Xi’An City Wall as the sun set and red lanterns and watch towers lit up.  We had a blast taking an electric rickshaw back to the hotel.  We found out that travel time was half as long as a taxi ride because rickshaw drivers violate traffic rules by driving against traffic, running red lights, and weaving through narrow hutongs impossible for cars to navigate.

Buddha from one of the Temples at the Big Wild Goose Pagoda

Ming wall at night - Xi'an

Xi’An Beilin Museum (Forest of Steles)

June  29th

We went to Qian Ling Mausoleum, and then Famen Temple and Museum.  The museum housed four of Sakyamuni’s finger bones and intricate jewel encrusted relic boxes.  At night we rode an electric rickshaw to Bei-Yuan-Men against traffic and walked the streets, had dinner at the famous Jia San soup dumpling restaurant, and toured the former residence of Gao Ye Song where we also saw a traditional shadow puppet show.

June 30th

We went to the Great Mosque and Yangling Mausoleum of the Han Dynasty (an impressive display, where we walked across the glass top of burial pits and saw cross sections at eye level) before leaving for Beijing.

We loved our time in Xi’An, and thoroughly enjoyed all of our tour guides and drivers.  We’d be interested in returning, as we only saw a small fraction of the tombs and museums.  What a rich history!

We flew into Beijing and were met by Lui Pei who owns the condo we rented and Alex, an interpreter. The air was hazy and hot; traffic was so heavy that it took quite a while to get to the condo and settle in.  They walked us around the neighborhood grocery store and helped us order dinner at a nearby restaurant.   We fell asleep to the steady sounds of traffic.

Dalian: June 25th-26th

June 25th

George and I went to pick up Frank from the airport; an hour after his flight arrived we finally found him at the curb. Apparently we had completely missed one another in the crowd, with me still waiting near the gate and Frank waiting outside. For the rest of the day George ribbed us, saying he doubted that we were actually married since we hadn’t been able to recognize each other in a Chinese airport containing few foreigners. The three of us joined Song and Jason for hot pot lunch and Frank and George practiced “ganbei “ [bottoms up] while drinking large bottles of local beer. That night we joined Elsie and her friend at Marco Polo for Italian food. After hours of conversation, we then exchanged gifts and tearful good-byes. This was one of the most difficult farewells for me. Elsie had become a good friend during the past month.

June 26th

We had a farewell lunch with Dean Gong, Song, Chen, George, Mr. Wang, and Maggie (now she prefers to be called Jane). Maggie was an exchange fellow a few years ago and told us of her fond memories. The jokes flew during lunch; we laughed about the airport incident, Dean Gong’s name resembling ‘King Kong’, and the 5 beautiful women Frank was taking home with him [one of the gifts they gave was a panel depicting 4 historically admired Chinese women]. Given his busy schedule Dean Gong departed while the rest of us went to the airport. We continued the banter in the airport until it was time to say good-bye and go through security.

The farewell lunch with Chen, Song, and Dean Gong

George at the farewell lunch

The flight to Xi’An gave us magnificent vistas of sharp mountain ridges with ribbon-like valleys containing rivers, roads, and villages. It was just like the photos I’ve seen of the interior of China. In the airport we met Maggie, a tour agent who hooked us up with her brother Yue, who served as our driver for our stay in Xi’An. He took us through the heavy traffic of the city, through an opening in the Ming City wall to our hotel, the Grand Noble Xi’An. The city outside of the wall was as modern as Dalian, but within the walls the architecture was done in the Tang and Ming tradition. Buses, taxis, bicycles, motorcycles, scooters, and electric rickshaws mingled with cars on the busy streets. Electric rickshaws look like a scooter in the front with a covered cab in the back for either two or four passengers. We’ll have to try one for trips within the inner wall.

Dalian: June 20th-24th

June 20th

I taught Phil’s Sophomore class.  Here were some of their questions:  How did you meet your husband? How involved are American parents in their children getting married? What’s your favorite country and why?  How do you balance work and home life? Chinese parents want their children to be successful and make lots of money–what do American parents want for their children? What got you interested in a career in special education–did you want to know more about disabilities or did you just want to help the children?  What can you do to help Americans better understand the Chinese people?  Did you build your house or buy it? How do you think traveling helps you understand people?  What do you do about the media influencing you? How can I get my brain to develop and work better, as the PowerPoint showed the brains of students with disabilities improving?

Lucia and I spent our last tutoring session at Xinghai Park watching the tourists launch themselves from a tall platform over the water, tethered by a bungee cord attached to their feet.  In the background music played, pop songs by Wu Lan Tuo Ya about her love for her home, Tibet. I asked Lucia if she would accompany me to purchase one of her CD’s, mentioning a music store I frequently passed.  She explained that they might have pirated material, so we went to the grocery store where I bought a legitimate copy of The Moon over the Grassland.  I’m listening to it now while writing this.

Our last day together, I learned even more about Lucia.  She showed me her study guide for her course, Qualitative Linguistics, which would challenge any graduate student who has English as her first language, let alone a student who has acquired it as a second language.  During the first two weeks of July she’ll take ten exams.  In the small dorm room she shares with 3 other roommates, the electricity gets turned off at 11:30 every night, limiting her study time.  This is common practice on campuses in China.  Lucia’s goal is to return to her hometown and either serve as a translator or an English teacher.  When it came time to part, we fought back tears as we exchanged email addresses and hugged, expressing gratitude for what we learned from each other.  In Lucia’s words, “We talked about more than simply language.  We talked about the deeper things…”

With Lucia in front of International Housing

June 21st

Elsie and I spent the day touring an upscale seaside condominium complex that a friend of hers was building, had lunch at a Muslim restaurant near campus, visited the Dalian Art Exhibition Museum, had dinner at Ap6at (a Russian restaurant in the Russian neighborhood), and walked Black Reef Park at night.   The Muslim restaurant was owned and operated by people from an ethnic minority, the Hui.  They primarily live in northwest China and practice the Islamic religion.  When I complemented the waitress on the thick, sour, and delicious yogurt she said that it’s even better in her part of the country where it’s made with fresh milk, recently extracted from the cow.

With Elsie at the Dalian Art Exhibition Museum

This was a relaxing day of sightseeing and eating.   The cherry vendors were selling 3 types of cherries, one was called crystal, the other red lantern, and the third I can’t recall.  I loved the light tartness of the yellow and red crystal cherries and bought some for Frank, knowing that cherries are his favorite fruit and would be a perfect treat after his long flight.  Elise and I had a great time and when we returned to my building she introduced me to her favorite English teacher, Helen.  A special education teacher from Canada, Helen had retired early and come to China with her husband three years ago.  They both enjoy teaching at DUFE and spoke enthusiastically about this way of life, the openness of the people, the sincerity of the students, and the important role of China in globalization. They’ve taken trips from China to other parts of Asia over the years and have always traveled on their own so they could see the ‘real’ side of Asia.

June 22nd

Chen and Song took me out for lunch at a restaurant that served all dofu dishes. We drank soybean juice, ate four different dofu dishes, and talked about everything that’s happened since we last got together.  That afternoon I addressed the English faculty and gave an overview of Meredith, including a photo gallery of the Meredith and DUFE exchange fellows from 2008 to 1992.  I expressed my gratitude for being a part of this nearly twenty year old relationship which has produced for me new friendships and a deep appreciation of their country.   One of the fellows, Jia Xiuhai, was at the meeting and spoke about his positive experiences at Meredith, in particular some the friendships he developed and still maintains.

I said good-bye to Monica and Prof.  Zhou since this was our last time to see one another.   I realized that the next few days would consist of saying farewell to quite a few people I’ve come to care about. This isn’t going to be easy.

Jason and I dined at a place that specialized in country food from northern China… and of course, it was delicious.   A large photo of Chairman Mao hung on one wall, according to Jason it’s one the most famous Mao photos, the one most popular with the common people.   We spoke about his fall travel plans to Meredith, the sights he needed to see in our state, how to plan for the weather, and our families.   It was interesting that despite the fact that our moms lived at opposite ends of the globe, both were raised in a rural area during a difficult time in history.  For my mom it was the depression, for his it was a time of famine.

June 23rd

I was unexpectedly Skyped by Frank, who was still in Raleigh. His flight had been delayed, and he wouldn’t have been able to make the connection in Detroit so he returned home, to attempt the same flights tomorrow.  I can hardly wait to see him and travel China together; we’ve never been apart this long.  The entire day I received phone texts from faculty members offering to accompany me to the airport to pick him up.  No one would allow me to do it by myself, despite my protests that they had full schedules, with exams to write, graduation activities to plan and attend, and oral presentations to attend and grade.  I couldn’t tell who was organizing plans with who; it turned out that a duplicate set of plans was in the works with three people collaborating on one set, and another two involved with their separate plan.

 Eileen, a faculty member who had befriended Ellen Graden when she visited several years ago, took me out to lunch and we had a great time telling stories of Ellen, our families, meeting our husbands for the first time, and our work. I was flattered when she told me that I share some of Ellen’s mannerisms and humor.  Eileen was raised in a rural part of China, just like Jason.  As a daughter of two teachers, she knew she wanted to be a teacher from an early age.  We talked about our love of teaching, the unique student-teacher bond, and the “ripple effect” of teaching.

With Eileen at the restaurant; notice the hand-painted wall paper in the background

I taught Prof Zhou’s junior class, an animated group who were very inquisitive.  Here’s a sampling of their questions: How much did your house cost? How long would it take me to make enough money in America to buy a house such as yours? Is Forrest Gump an existentialist movie? What do Americans think about China?  What Chinese media personality or leader is your favorite?  Who did you vote for in the last presidential election? Is it true that Americans are allowed to carry guns? How did you meet your husband?  Why did you choose special education as your field of study? Why did you want to come to China? Why do you like China so much? What’s been your favorite part of China so far and why? Who will be taking care of your dogs while you and your husband are in China? One of the students offered to walk me to my building but I explained that I was meeting some students downstairs for dinner.  I continue to be touched by the thoughtfulness of DUFE students.

I met Lily and Shirley, two of the freshmen I had lunch with weeks ago and their friend for dinner, treating them to a new Korean barbecue restaurant. We grilled meat and vegetables while talking about their families, summer plans, boys, the media’s portrayal of world events, multicultural understandings, the pros and cons of a transient life style versus living in the place of your birth, and some of the stereotypes of America and China.  They talked about how Japanese anime was a large part of their elementary school years, and laughed that the same had occurred with our son Evan and his friends who are the same age.  So for a while Pokemon became the main conversational topic. I was also asked to share my opinion on a variety of topics—study abroad programs, gun control, religion, setting boundaries with people, evaluating information from the media, Chinese customs and traditions, capital punishment, interfaith dialogue, social justice, the controversy of Chinese student celebrating Christmas, environmental concerns, terrorism, etc.   The restaurant became too noisy to hear one another so we moved to a quiet location on campus and continued the conversation until the building closed.  It was very difficult saying good-bye, as we grew very close by the end of the night.  Lilly pulled out from her purse a bag of fresh yellow cherries, her favorite type, as a gesture of her appreciation.

June 24th

Frank sent me an email saying he was finally on his way.  I was relieved!  This morning I found out that a third set of separate plans had been made for taking me to the airport and picking up Frank.  I thanked Xiaoyu Ding for her hard work in hosting me at International Housing and assured her that everything had been arranged, and she need not do anything more for me.

The interior of the post graduate building

The post-graduate class was canceled because all students were involved in day-long graduation activities.  Colorful banners, balloons, and decorations were strung along the campus streets. A parade of students marched from the stadium, each wearing a colored tee shirt representing their school or department, with their group leader holding a flag.  This allowed me more time to meet Eileen and her daughter Tong Tong who explained to me the purpose of the cards that were strung up with the graduation decorations. Each card was written by a graduate who expressed their departing thoughts to the college at large. They read about a dozen of the hundreds of cards, each message was personal and  poignant.  One card said, “Time flies. But I’ll always remember hearing English read out loud and seeing the silhouettes of the runners on the track. This will always be in my heart.” Another read, “A thousand words cannot express my love for the memories at the university.”  Another was written as poem in which the person said they were grateful for their life here and both sad and excited that it was now over.  They were all this openly sentimental.  It was very touching.

We went to Eileen’s office and drank delicious date tea (made from Eileen’s parents’ trees) and talked about Ellen, Tong Tong’s zither playing, her school, and plans for summer and college.  On June 28ththe college entrance exam results will be available on-line and Tong Tong will know which of her university applications will come to fruition.  We had a great time conversing about parenting in China and America and the types of stress and pressures encountered by young people in each country, particularly the cultural icons that youth emulate.  I learned about a subgroup of teenagers called “banana children,“ teens who were born and raised in America, and returned to China with their parents once the country opened its doors. These teens are yellow (Chinese) on the outside, white (Caucasian) on the inside and struggle to fit into either peer group.  We said good-bye and promised to stay in touch.

Posing with Eileen

Posing with Tong Tong

Walking back to my apartment, the streets were covered with students who were talking in groups, hanging out, or playing games at some of the booths.  I don’t think I can adequately describe their joy, the celebratory atmosphere, and the upbeat music.  It’s my hope that the photos below do it justice.

Students playing cards; their tee shirts have been autographed by their peers

Strings of graduates' cards

A balloon popping game

More graduation decorations

A table of students at the festivities

These students posed for me and gave me one of the bags of candies and origami they were distributing to graduates

Graduates pouring out from the stadium after an assembly

A close-up of some of the graduates' cards

It's typical to see women sharing an umbrella to provide shade while strolling together, often holding hands. They're walking past a graduation sign.

Dalian: June 15th-19th

June 15th

Professor Zhou and Song took me to a private dining room on campus where we ate 3 different types of jioazi and 4 entrees. We had an animated conversation about cross cultural comparisons in a range of topics– academia, students, standard of living, traditions, and food (of course).   While faculty salaries at DUFE are commensurate with American state universities, housing is 5-10 times more expensive and living expenses involving food, clothing, travel, entertainment, etc. are about 2-3 times cheaper.  They were a bit taken aback when I told them about the salary range at Meredith; they had no idea it was so low, especially for doctoral-level faculty.  Some other differences we discovered was that they don’t require doctoral degrees of their faculty nor do they have tenure; people without Ph.D.’s can retire at age 55, those with such degrees can’t retire until they’re at least 65 years old.

June 16th to 19th

As Chen drove me to the light rail station, she explained the difficulty in translating a language as ancient and complex as Chinese.  Many times they don’t recognize the name of a location (hotel, building, neighborhood, etc.) when it’s given in either another Chinese dialect or translated into English.  I told her about Prof. Zhou’s funny story of a colleague whose name meant one thing in his own dialect, and yet in another dialect it meant foolish and stupid.  I also told her of my fascination with signs that provide lyrical and amusing English translations.

After being dropped off, I took the light rail to Dalian’s Development Zone and spent four days sightseeing that part of the city, as well as taking the light rail to the coast.  On the train trips I realized  the tremendous expansion within Dalian—every vista had several buildings over 20+ stories under construction.  The train passed several ports and industrial areas with factories.  The few remaining tracts of open land were completely bulldozed, the dirt blowing all over with two or three dozen construction vehicles and a dozen cranes building new roads and apartment complexes.  One of the more interesting complexes stretched as far as the eye could see, the dirt sculpted and reformed.  In the middle of small man-made craters stood clusters of small old homes with laundry hanging on clotheslines, and small gardens up against their homes.   They looked like tiny dots of color against a palette of endless brown.

The hotel was in a dense business section of the city with several malls and many restaurants.  Vendors start setting up their wares around 3:00, just as they do near campus, but in this part of the city they completely fill the alleys extending along several city blocks, remaining open until late at night.   Every day, all day long an elderly couple sat across from the Kerren Hotel where the husband played a reed instrument, its sounds mingling with downtown traffic noises.

I spent the evenings walking the city streets and daytime wandering around Jinshitan, an incredible park within a tourist resort area, Golden Pebble Recreational Area.  They have a world-renowned golf course on a peninsular cliff along the Yellow Sea, Discoveryland—a theme park designed by the same company that designed Disney, and high-end housing–one development was named “Oriental Yosemite.”   On a 10 mile flat stretch of beach were cabana frames lined up in tidy rows, solitary groups of tourists, and bridal groups scattered all around.  But the very best part was the eastern section, the Geopark,  which I explored  via two different tours.  On a boat tour I shared the sights with other tourists, but on the walking tour I encountered only a few people at a time, sometimes having it all to myself.  The scenery was gorgeous.  Rather than describe any of this, I’m posting the photos (see below).  When I could, I’ve provided the creative names of some of their geological formations.

On my return trip I couldn’t find the correct bus to take from the rail station, so I took a cab.  The cabbie and I made a bit of a game out of  weaving through campus.  He would repeat the directional words after me and I’d call out, “Dui” for yes.  At the end of the trip, his meter read “249.00.”  When I tried to give him 249 Yuan, he laughed and nodded no, returning the two one hundreds.  It was then I realized that the fare was 25 yuan (rounding out).  To express my gratitude I repeated “xiexie ni” (thank you) a half a dozen times and we laughed harder.  That night I met Phil, one of the faculty, for spicy Shezuan dinner and we talked about his visit to Meredith, as well as his trips to Washington DC, Boston, NY, Philadelphia, Niagara Falls, Grand Canyon, LA, San Francisco, and Las Vegas.  He talked about the rigorous study schedules that Chinese middle schoolers and high school students encounter and the little time they have left to enjoy life and de-stress.  Between the two of us we ate six dishes.  This was the best meal yet, but since I promised to avoid food details, you’ll have to use your imagination.  [Hint: lots of garlic, charred red peppers, fermented black beans, fresh red pepper, chili paste, ginger, fish, clams, green beans, dofu, potato flour noodles, and open faced dumplings.]  Here are the photos of Jinshitan…

Arabic Castle rock

Dinosaur Swallowing the Sea rock

Crab traps strung out to dry

The end of the beach (boat tour)

Fishing net stretched out on the beach with Arabic Castle in the background

Crab Out Cave--see the crab-like formation under the deck

The colors in the rock layers were even more vivid than the photo

Mother and Son Tortoises rocks (Mom is to the right, her son is the small island to the left)

Posing near the boat dock

  • Another view of Arabic Castle (foreground) and Dinosaur Swallowing the Sea (background)
  •   I took a boat tour and one of the passengers asked if she could pose with me. She and her 4 friends each took turns.  Here’s one of the poses taken with my camera.

A profile of a face

Folded rock

Turtle Stone

Turtle Stone sign

Dalian: June 10th-14th

June 10th

On CCTV they announced that today, high school students from two minority groups were taking ethnic language tests as part of the Gaokao—the Tibetan Language Test and the Mongolian Grammar Test. This has been required as a way to preserve the native languages of students from Tibet and Mongolia.  Their scores count toward 50% of their language score, with the Mandarin language test comprising the other half.

One of the other news items was that Taiwan was opening up its borders to individual mainland China citizens. Up until now, they have only allowed Chinese tour groups.  This will allow people to travel without a restrictive itinerary and family members can more freely visit.

Elsie (I misspelled her name in previous posts, then went back and edited them) and I took bus 16, a double-decker, sitting in the front on top to Zhoushan Square.  While walking to an art museum we dodged cars in the streets (there are few lights and lots of traffic circles) and sidewalks.   On the sidewalk a car zoomed past us, stopped, and parked inches from the steps of a hotel entrance.  I was annoyed and explained to Elsie the consequences of driving and parking on sidewalks in America.  She thought it was funny that something so commonplace in China would unnerve me.  At one point I told her I’d be more at ease if we’d follow behind older pedestrians because they’ve been weaving their way around traffic many years and were obviously successful at it.  So that’s the strategy we implemented; it worked quite well.

It turned out that the art museum was closed, despite Elsie having checked their website. They were setting up new exhibits and the walls were barren.  Elsie assertively told the curator that an American professor came all the way to see his museum, and asked what could he do to accommodate me.  I was a bit chagrined.  My temporary embarrassment passed when he stepped into the museum and came out with a book of one of the featured artists with colored plates of his work, offering it as a gift for our troubles.

We walked along Russian Front Street, lined with 1900 era homes and buildings from the Russian occupation.  In front of them were vendors selling everything from produce and street food to nested Russian dolls and scarves (Chinese-made).   We had traditional tea served at Ten Fu’s, a chain of high end tea houses.  As the jasmine tea steeped in a glass carafe, light amber tea swirled from the flower bud inside.  The bud opened and released a second flower; this one was orange-colored. The final stage occurred when the orange flower burst open and a stem climbed upwards with small lilies attached.  The hostess pointed out that the beauty of this tea lasted well after you’ve finished drinking it.  Of course I bought some.  We were served assorted tea cakes, tea candy, and fruit and rose hips fermented in oolong tea.

At the teahouse on Russian Front St with Elsie

Dalian Art Exhibition Museum

Elsie wanted to eat Western food and learn how to navigate the intricacies of napkins, knives, forks, etc. so we went to a restaurant popular among college students.  Housed exclusively on university campuses, this particular restaurant was at Dalian Neusoft Institute of Information, unfamiliar to both of us.   We wandered the campus until Vera, a student, helped by escorting us to the restaurant.   She said that after lunch she’d love to show us around her campus.   We were served their version of a standard western  meal consisting of mango sorbet, orange juice, spaghetti pasta with beef and soy sauce, pizza without tomato sauce, and steak.   Since this was served on platters in the middle of the table we asked for separate plates to more closely replicate  a western table setting.

Elsie eating pizza, western style

Elsie and the western lunch

After dinner Vera and her friend Rachel joined us and gave us a tour of the campus grounds, library, student art gallery, and bell tower.   The campus was like something out of a sci-fi novel.  Geometric, ultramodern buildings were stacked along the mountain, connected by walkways and terraces.  It was remarkable.   The grounds were covered with gardens and sculptures of famous scientists—we saw statues of Planck, Marconi, Zuse, and Sanqiang.

Their futuristic library was an arcing multilevel building topped by a glass dome.  Inside, the student reading room was directly under the dome, with a garden and a red pagoda-style awning in the center, surrounded by rows of concentric tables.  The tables were full of approximately 200 students, many with 2-4 piles of books 1 to 2 feet high.  They worked in complete silence.  Posters were hung with motivational statements.  One read, “My wasteful today is the tomorrow those losers are begging for.”

That night I took Lucia and Shirley, graduate students, out to dinner at a restaurant of their choice. They picked the Korean Barbeque restaurant where we spent the entire evening eating food and talking about food.  I taught them how to grill since they’d always have their parents perform this task.  As they took turns cooking our dinner on the grill built into our table, we went into excruciating detail about each of our favorite foods, our local food specialties, and our mothers’ best cooking.  We ended the evening with a walk to the jiaozi shop—something they hadn’t known about.

Library pagoda

Elsie and statue of Zuse

Vera, Rachel, and statue of Zuse

Dalian Neusoft Library

Vera and Rachel on their campus

June 11th

I escaped from doing laundry and some work to walk for a couple hours and take photos of the lovely campus gardens.  You’ll see from the photos that DUFE gardens combine sculpture, flowers, and greenery. These are tucked away in areas all over campus.  ‘Doing laundry’ now has a new meaning for me because dryers aren’t used at all.  Laundry is hung out to dry.  Here in International Housing we pin our laundry up on clotheslines in the courtyard.  Apartments all over Dalian have racks either inside or outside their windows where laundry is hung.   It’s a great way to conserve energy.    

June 12th

I continued to do work, taking a midday break to meet Cynthia, a student, and walk together in Black Reef Park.  I returned and worked some more.

Black Reef vendor with Coca Cola banner

Exercise stations in the square in the Black Reef hutong

Senior citizens working at an exercise station in the hutong

June 13th

I presented to the graduate students a modified version of Powerpoint that included Facione’s model of critical thinking, its subskills, and its emphasis across levels of schooling in America.  I encouraged them to formulate questions implementing these subskills.   Some of there questions were:  What religion do you believe in and how has it shaped your life? How do you teach children with disabilities without them feeling inferior about themselves? In X [names a TV show unfamiliar to me] they show college girls having sex often with different boys.  Is this typical of real American college students?  How do you budget your money? Americans seem to change jobs often, is this due to getting better pay or disenchantment? What are the different levels of universities in America and how are they different in their requirements?  What do you think of the culture of Japan?  What do Americans think about Chinese products?  What kind of food do you like? [the easy question…]

I had dinner with George and Michael, who’d been to Meredith several years ago. We talked about the campus, faculty who had hosted some of their activities, American food, and funny stories about our lives.   Michael was mildly razzed for driving to campus daily despite living within a 20 minute walk from his home, yet he jogs every single day after dinner.  He described a scenic trail he takes that winds its way up and the down a small seaside mountain with tombs nearby. I thought I’d try to find it tomorrow.

June 14th

Today was a full day…

Lucia and I took an early morning bus to Peace Mall to buy specialty items from the largest supermarket in the area.  We wanted to beat the rush hour commuters and shoppers.  During the bus trip we practiced our language skills, notably I rehearsed the four different Mandarin tones and she worked on vocabulary.  As is common in most malls, this one had the supermarket on the first, and then the next floor was ‘women’s’, then ‘young people’s’, then ‘men’s’, and the top floor contained restaurants.

We joined Shirley for lunch at the campus jioazi shop and ordered three different types to share.  They laughed about an insider joke in which they say to each another, “You’re not welcome.” I taught them, “Thanks, but no thanks.”  We also discussed the different dialects in China which are so unique that they can’t understand one another’s speech even though they share the same written language.  I gave them examples of various dialects found in the states. They enjoyed the Bostonian dialect.

I went for a beautiful walk, finding the trail up the small coastal mountain that Michael had described. Once I began to descend on the side facing the sea, below me were the arched shapes of hundreds of tombs interspersed among pine trees.   Narrow trails cut across and zigzagged, connecting the tombs.  Some brick vaults were simple constructions, others had granite tablets containing writing, and still others were ornate with carved lions and granite slabs that served as porches jutting out with a view of the sea.  Most of the tombs had two recesses for keeping incense burners, and piles of papers with prayers written on them, weighed down with bricks.  Many were decorated with silk and plastic floral bouquets.  I was in awe of the effort spent in erecting and tending these graves, a challenging task given the rough topography.


Prayer sheets placed on top of tomb

Man playing erhu on the sidewalk across from campus

In the evening I went to Xinghai Park with Swallow, Zoe, and Rita, graduate students. They brought drinks for everyone, including my favorite green tea (they had noticed the brand I brought with me to class) and clean cushions to sit on when we reached the park.  The park was completely different once it became dark, with multi-colored lights from the rides and surrounding city buildings and fewer people. Once the dancers finished, musicians came out. We listened to a band (a drummer, 2 saxophonists, 2 violinists, an accordion player, and 2 singers) perform traditional and contemporary music.

The evening’s most unexpected treat was a trio playing traditional instruments: the pipa (similar to the Spanish guitar), erhu (the same instrument I saw a man playing today during my walk; check out the photo), and di (a reed).   Most of the songs were instrumental, the pipa player sang a few times.  The four of us sat on rocks across from the musicians, as a full moon shone through the tree canopy above us.  The classical Chinese music was beautiful.  Zoe explained the songs’ meanings and their regional origin.  During one of the songs we all were commenting on the perfect synchronicity—we were watching the moon’s rays dancing on the water as we were listening to lyrics describing that very same thing—lyrics which had been written thousands of years ago.

Xinghai Park: Swallow and Rita

Zoe, Rita, and Swallow in Xinghai Park

Dalian: June 6th – 9th

June 6th

A poster of healthy food combinations (top section) and unhealthy ones (lower section) hanging in Chen's kitchen

Today was Dragon Boat Festival and classes were canceled.  Many students were walking around campus carrying boxes of zongzi.  The majority of students reside in towns and cities across China, and are unable to travel by bus or train within such a short time frame.  When I walked the track, I saw a student from my first class and we exchanged greetings.

I went to Chen’s home near Tiger Beach. On the drive to her neighborhood we passed a huge middle and high school with a banner announcing, “School for English-speaking Students.”    Nondescript huge apartment buildings stood like tall beige rectangles in a valley surrounded by green mountains with sandy-colored crags.  The plain exterior of Chen’s building contrasted with the ornate interior.  As we walked up the stairway to her 7th floor home, we passed doorways decorated with red and gold banners from the Chinese New Year, and with fragrant bouquets of dried herbs to celebrate Dragon Boat Festival.  Chen introduced me to her husband and showed me around her beautiful home with highly polished stained floors and hand- carved woodwork in the cabinets, wardrobes, doors, and furniture.  She demonstrated the art of tea as we drank a delicate green tea.

We prepared zongzi, with Chen making it look easy as she lined up three blades of overlapping bamboo leaves, folded them into a pocket, filled it with rice and beans, and then folded it over into a pyramid before tying it with a reed.  It took me about twenty attempts to make my first one.  Since the zongzi take two hours to steam, we ate a different meal– spring cake. These are thin homemade pancakes filled with vegetables and meats of your choice.  They are rolled and eaten like a burrito.   After dinner we sat cross legged on a traditional couch and talked.  This couch is like an elevated, wide three-sided bench with a small table between us, very comfortable.

We drove back to campus through downtown Dalian, watching a spectacular light show playing on the walls of a pair of skyscrapers and a variety of digital screens displaying advertising, some of the screens were two stories tall.

Chen pouring tea

Chen and spouse working in the kitchen

Making zongzi

Talking and drinking more tea

June 7th

I saw on an English language news channel on CCTV, that today high school students all over China were taking the college entrance exams, called Gaokao, a two-day test.   Two students were interviewed.  A student from a rural area said she wanted to do well so that she could attend one of the universities in a large city, something her parents desired as a way for her to broaden her view.  Another student stated that he wanted to do well as a way to show his parents his appreciation of the sacrifices they’d done for him.  The police were out in large numbers, directing traffic in an effort to minimize traffic jams so that students could begin the exams on time.  If late for the exam, a student is barred and must wait until next year.

Lucia, my exchange tutor, translated some content on a website I found about special education in China.  I reviewed with her a chart that Frank found on the internet that depicted the four different tones.  She and I practiced it with various words.  We then caught bus 23 to the Qingniwa Business Center, where I had hoped to shop at Qiu Lin, a seven story women’s shop, complete with health spa, hair salon, and Thai restaurant.  On the long bus ride Lucia’s role was tutee, and I was tutor.  As she spoke I gave her feedback re. pronunciation and vocabulary development.  She talked about Gaokao and the tremendous stress students experience preparing for it, taking it, and then waiting a month before getting the results.   She told me that DUFE was the top university in Dalian, accessible only to those who earn top scores on Gaokao.  I told her that I’ve been impressed by the keen intelligence and well developed English language skills among the undergraduates and graduate students I’ve met.  I was also impressed by her courses this semester:  linguistics (two courses), pragmatics, international business contract law, English literature, Chinese literature, and Japanese.

When we arrived we plunged down a set of stairs into a maze of underground tunnels jammed with small shops.  Once we navigated through this and came above ground we discovered that the store had been temporarily closed for remodeling.  However, the New Market mall was nearby, so the day was saved!  The seven storied mall was impressive and colorful, filled with high-end shops.  Once I learned the routine, Lucia left me on my own, returning to campus for her classes.  Each store was a three-sided room, open to the hallway filled with shoppers.   Rather than putting all of their stock on racks, they display only one of each item.  If you see something you like, the salesclerk finds it in your size from storage.   Each shop has a single small dressing room.  If you want to buy it, the clerk gives you a handwritten receipt which you turn in and pay at a centralized ‘service center’.  The cashier gives you a receipt which you take back with you to the shop, where your purchases are bagged and waiting for you.

I purchased some out of season clothing which was on sale in the middle of the mall.  This dressing room was quite interesting.  It consisted of a salesclerk holding up a curtain near an inner wall, within view of the multiple balconies above.  I shared this dressing room with another woman, figuring that since she was much younger if anyone above wanted to watch they wouldn’t be looking at me.

In addition to the mall, I visited small shops above and below ground, and some of the larger department stores, one of them was Japanese.   I found several shops belonging to bridal photographers.  After several hours I was lost and walked into a Tourist Center, announcing, “Ni hao. I’m lost. Do you know where I get bus 23, qing [please]?”  The clerks laughed along with me and one of them kindly showed me the direction.

Lucia outside of New Market Mall

That night, as I ate dinner at the dumpling shop on campus, I heard, “Hello Marge,” and saw Li Xia enter.  I realize that it was the first time I’ve heard someone unexpectedly call out my name since I arrived in China.  She joined me for a meal; it was great to have her companionship.

New Market Mall

June 8th

I taught a class of sophomores using a modified version of my previous presentation.  This was an animated group, as students arrived they joined me in front of the class and spoke excitedly, asking me questions about America, and sharing things about themselves.   During my presentation they asked relevant questions and engaged in discussion.  When I came to the part of Evan attending UNC Charlotte one student called out, “Isn’t that Michael Jordan’s university?”  This allowed me to discuss the state university system and separate campus identities.  I also gave a little plug for the 49ers basketball team. Given their high level of interaction, I gave them only five minutes to prepare questions for interview the instructor.  Here’s a sampling of their questions:  How many languages do you speak?  What special instruction do you give students with disabilities?  What is the difference between a Ph.D. in Psychology and one in Special Education? What do Americans think about terrorists?  What do you feel is the most significant thing you’ve done in your life thus far?  What is one thing you’ve done that you most regret?  What books have you read which have had the most direct impact on you? Who do you like better, Obama or Bush, and why?  What are the benefits of meditation?  How satisfied are you at this stage of your life?  How much did you let your sons decide on their own about schools?

After class I was invited to lunch by Amy and Silvia.  They talked about their second foreign language, (French), their career goals, and their desire to study abroad and travel.  They also discussed the westernization of weddings in China with more brides trying to ”look French by wearing white”  instead of traditional red.

I stopped by the English Department to see Monica and ran into George wearing a Meredith College teeshirt!  On her desk, were two stacks of students’ English papers, one about 1 ½ feet tall, the other 2 ½ feet tall.  All I could think of was the amount of effort and time the faculty would have to put into grading them once they were sorted and distributed.  In a few weeks, this will be repeated, with final exams needing to be graded.

I walked around Black Reef Park and people-watched (and of course, some of them were brides).  I could hear the lyrics by Queen, “We will, we will rock you, rock you…” in a very tinny tone off in the distance.  It took a while but I finally located the source — a toddler sitting in a small electric ride, a tiny rickshaw. She was slowly being pulled by a mechanical peasant, his legs moving and his head turning side to side. The song was blasting from the rental ride as the passenger’s grandmother protectively followed behind her.

While working on my laptop, Norman IM’ed me using Skype.  He had spent Dragon Boat Festival climbing a mountain with his family.  He wanted to know two things– what is a popsicle, and who are exceptional children?  The first question was straightforward to answer, the second one took a while. We then exchanged some banter about my name being shared with Bart Simpson’s mother.

Toddler and grandmother at Black Reef Park: We will, we will rock you...

June 9th

I took bus 23 to Xinghai Square and walked around to take more pictures of the square, the park, and then the hutong near campus.  Here’s a photo gallery of the sights.  I promise no bride photos, even though I saw four of them.  Today was a typical day, with he morning cool and foggy, by the afternoon it becomes hot and sunny.

Dalian Centenary Sculpture at Xinghai Square consisting of 1,000 footprints of Dalian citizens, symbolizing their bravery during 100 years of the city's history. They had been occupied by Russians and Japanese during some of these years.

Mammoth sculpture of an opened book at Xinghai Square

The beach at Xinghai Square, typical of much of the seashore I've seen thus far.

Beach party tent at Xinghai Square

Inflatable rolling rides at Xinghai Square

A descriptive sign at the edge of the cliff at Xinghai Park.. one picture tells it all

Xinghai Park: Thrill ride; two passengers fit inside the ball and are launched skyward on the elastic cords.

Meat counter in local grocery store

The hutong near campus: View of middle schoolers from the coffee shop

The hutong near campus: Entrance into underground mall

Dalian: June 2nd-5th

June 2nd

I woke up to a voice coming from the courtyard and watched a man give instruction in taijiquan to a couple below. Many of the moves resembled some yoga warm up activities I’d learned.  The teacher was graceful; his moves appeared to be swanlike while the students’ moves were abrupt and clumsy.

I spent the day following the wooden walkway through Xinghai Park and Square, along winding Binhai Lui to Forest Zoo.  The temperature started out cold due to fog, with the haze burning off and the air warming up around 1:00.  I stopped for lunch at an upscale seafood restaurant that had a parrot mimicking a wolf whistle and calling out.  The only phrase I recognized was, “Ni hao!” This means hello.  During the meal I used my iPhone app to translate key words, such as “delicious,” “May I have the check please?” and “women’s toilet.”  This meal was the most expensive thus far, costing 12.00 USD.  My other meals have been between .50 and 3 USD.  Such a deal!

When continuing with my walk I saw a beach way below me and followed a road that led to an interesting beach ‘resort’  called Jinshatan Resort.  You can see from the photos that there was no hotel, just a set of cabanas, a driveway that ended at the ocean, a statue of a goddess, and a gift shop.  Small parties of young adults picnicked, cooking meat and vegetables on hibachi-style grills, playing volleyball and cards.  Lo and behold, on my way to the public restroom, out from the men’s side came a groom, and from the women’s side, a bride and her assistant.

Steps down to Jinshatan Resort

Jinshatan Resort

Statue of Quan Yin at Jinshatan Resort

I finally reached my destination, took the cable ride and enjoyed spectacular views of the seaside (while going up the small mountain) and of the zoo (tucked away in the woods on the other side).  Oddly enough, a set of red and white Coca Cola umbrellas stood out from the green forest.  It was a zoo concession stand.

View of Dalian

Concession stand at the zoo.

On the way back I realized that the bicycles parked on the side of the road with Styrofoam coolers contained popsicles.  The vendor gave me a thumbs up signal and smiled when I bit into my first red bean popsicle—it tasted great!

These fragrant white blossom trees are all over Dalian.

Hotels around Xinghai Square.

Tonight I had dinner with Elsie, a friend of Monica’s.  She was great company—very witty.  I saw the Westernized business section of Dalian, with five star hotels alongside high end shops—Armani, Gucci, Cartier, Espirit…

June 3rd

I met Lucia, a graduate student who Li Xia contacted for a tutor exchange arrangement.  We’ll meet twice a week for 2 hours, the first hour she’ll instruct me in Chinese (Mandarin) and the last hour I’ll tutor her.  When we talked about the specifics, I told her I’d like to go places with her, starting with the Dalian Museum of  Natural History today, and she could translate for me.  She wants me to help her with her pronunciation.  Her English speaking skills were very good, making it very easy for me to provide  feedback.  I, however, was a challenging student.  Lucia patiently corrected me as the two of us walked around campus, the hutong, and the museum with me repeating phrases until my performance was acceptable.   I hope to learn Chinese to the point where this process won’t be too painful for her.  She has a wonderful sense of humor; we laughed quite a bit as I bumbled along.

More brides!  At one point when we looked out the museum windows we saw two brides and their grooms posing for photos on the rocks with the surf crashing around them.

On our way toward the museum exit, we were redirected by two men in suits who gestured that we change our direction and go through a set of doors into an interior room.  Much to my surprise, we entered a room filled with high quality gems displayed in jewelry cases and carved sculptures sitting on shelves.  I could only identify two types of gems– jade in various shades of green and lilac, as well as rubies.  They were all for sale, ranging in price from 350 to 7500 RMB (convert this to USD by dividing by 6.5).  I exited without buying anything, saying that I may return in a few weeks and asked for a business card.

Dalian Museum of Natural History entrance

Dalian Museum of Natural History

Tonight I went to a traditional restaurant with Li Xia, Felicia, Cindy, and Gloria, all DUFE faculty women. The restaurant was decorated in the style from the Ming dynasty, including the wait staff clothing.  We ordered 4 entrees and 4 different types of jiaozi.  In our own private room we shared stories about academia, retirement, and family.  I learned a lot about their system of higher education.  Full professors can’t retire until they’re at least 65, lower ranking professors may retire younger.  Also, students don’t fail because they are allowed to retake a course as many times as is needed.  If their grade was decent but their final exam score was low, they merely need to retake the exam first thing the following semester.   I had a terrific time and jokingly asked if we could do this every night.

Restaurant hostess.

Felicia, Gloria, Li Xia, and Cindy

In front of the restaurant with Gloria, Cindy, and Li Xia

Menu selection.

Live seafood selection.

On the way home, the city was filled with traffic and pedestrians celebrating the end of the week.   It took approximately 10 minutes for Li Xia to get a break in oncoming traffic in order to make a left hand turn.  During this time our car sat in the direct path of cars coming from the opposite direction, their headlights barreling down on us.  It took me a while to figure out why we were in this predicament.  Their lane was completely blocked by road construction; no one was directing traffic and we were all on our own in negotiating our moves.   I fell asleep that night still playing the movie in my head of unrelenting glaring headlights.

June 4th

It was cold today due to the heavy fog.  When passing the vendors on the pedestrian bridge one called out, “How are you doing?”  I laughed and told him, “Just fine, just fine.”  Today I found another way to the seashore, walking through the campus of Dalian Ocean University.  Classes were in session for some students and faculty despite it being a Saturday.  I power walked around a landscaped circle between the sea and a classroom building filled with students, having gotten the idea from an older woman who was jogging the same path.  Despite the damp cold, the kind that saturates your bones, I saw a trio of older men tie orange floats around themselves and enter the water. They slapped their legs and arms, shouted out loud noises and snorted, then settled down and swam for about an hour.

Swimmers at Dalian Ocean University

Dalian Ocean University seawall

The perfect spot for power walking at Dalian Ocean University.

I stopped by the 90 Degree s coffee shop that advertised charcoal grilled coffee and had a latte, out of curiosity. One of the baristas came out from behind the counter and sat down and talked to me about her hopes to attend a university in either Canada or Australia.  Wan Zhen, a senior in high school, rejected my compliments about her language skills and expressed concern that she takes too long to ‘find the word.’  I told her that she was using a very effective strategy when encountering word retrieval challenges—she substituted the word with similar words or descriptive phrases.  I assured her that this allowed the listener to understand her meaning, and kept communication flowing.  I gave her my business card, writing my gmail address on the back.

June 5th

It was a beautiful day, around 85 degrees, no fog.  Black Reef Park had a lot of activity–people were clustered under bright red canopies grilling food, others rented bikes and roller skates, and still others were flying kites.  No one was swimming.

I returned to my great walking spot at Dalian Ocean University, while people around me were fishing.  Boats were moving along the water-sailboats, motor boats, and row boats. About a dozen men went for an hour long swim, paddling so far from shore that their orange floats looked like peas.

I explored the campus and found a set of stairs and ramps that went up to the top of the hill overlooking the sea.  The sea breeze was strong and felt refreshing.  On the way back to campus I stopped off for a mango juice at Amici Coffee and when using my iPhone translation app, the waiter laughed and told me, “We all know English here.”  (So much for my assumptions.)  Tonight I dined on jiaozi made fresh at the little shop on campus.  Although I used my iPhone app to explain that I wanted a dumpling containing  chicken and vegetables, a student helped by translating the specific type of vegetables.

Sunday fishing at Dalian Ocean University beach.

Rental bikes and skates at Black Reef Park.

Grilling at the beach at Black Reef Park.

Buying lunch from a vendor near Black Reef Park

Another vendor at Black Reef Park.